There is always a first in everything..

So yeah this is my very very first deepavali in my entire life!

I must say that everything is pretty new to me that it fascinates and creeps me (in a good way :P) about everything. Went to the temple but I can't say it is for the first time since I kinda think that I have ever been to a few temples when I was a kid..anyways the ritual and how they pray is kinda interesting. Celebrated it by going to my late grandpa's temple, yep I never know the huge temple in the middle of Brickfields is our family temple, it amuses me in a way that I can barely describe. To sum up my deepavali, all i can say is.. it is ALL about foods. Believe me. 

So yeah, Toodles!

NEWSFLASH!!

Lol, the title up there has nothing to do with the rate of importance of this post. Just having a glimpse of thought of updating this blog with zero main idea of what to write. So yeah, as I go through my laptop, I've found this!!

CUTE, NO? :D 

Lol, I'm taking mandarin as my minor, 4 credits hour bro!! So yeah, to get a first class Degree, I must at least score an A (4flat) for mandarin. Not cool.. but so far mandarin is cool and fun, i hope it stays that way. HOPEFULLY. :))

But I'm quite worried as I am kind of a slow learner so hopefully I won't be skipping any class..Lol I've been saying hopefully alot. Will make it happen instead of hoping, with god's will.

Friends with benefit.

I bet all of you have watched FWB of Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis, No String Attached by Ashton Kutcher and Natalie Portman and all sorts of movies that adapt the same concept that defines what FWB is.

So get your fact right of what topic I'm trying to say here :)

So yeah, my definition of a perfect fwb is someone who can be a friend instead of JUST the benefit. I honestly think that those who can only afford to give the "benefits" side is a total thumbsdown, turn them down at the very first place before you get yourself frustrated with what might come to your way..If you get what I mean. That's what a jerk usually does..a jerk.

A perfect fwb is someone who you can go to at the end of the day, talks about how your day goes, someone you want to trust, someone to brighten up your dull day in a way a friend or even better, a best friend could offer. It'd be so much cooler if they have the same thinking, likes and dislikes and other stuff that you can relate to yourself, or the opposite wont harm you as long as you feel comfortable of enjoy the presence of each other. and it'd be awesome if both of you could hang out just as how "a bros hanging out with other bros" kind of hangout if you get what I mean. I know it sounds like I'm describing a characteristic of what a girl wants in a guy and stuffs like that, dont get me wrong. The deal here that you both wants the same thing which is "not a relationship" so yeah, this is how it should go, to me.

Never ever treat your fwb as your last resort, remember they're human too! And they have feelings. And you should've understand what the ignorance stands for, something isnt right. 

But but but remember the deal is, no string attached so no feelings are involved in it. Although as I've stated before that they have feelings too, what I'm trying to say here is be considerate :)

Just had this on mind before and maybe I shall stop...oh and it has nothing to do with me. Just feel like spilling what is on my mind since I've been putting it on my drafts for so long. So yeah :D