So get your fact right of what topic I'm trying to say here :)
So yeah, my definition of a perfect fwb is someone who can be a friend instead of JUST the benefit. I honestly think that those who can only afford to give the "benefits" side is a total thumbsdown, turn them down at the very first place before you get yourself frustrated with what might come to your way..If you get what I mean. That's what a jerk usually does..a jerk.
A perfect fwb is someone who you can go to at the end of the day, talks about how your day goes, someone you want to trust, someone to brighten up your dull day in a way a friend or even better, a best friend could offer. It'd be so much cooler if they have the same thinking, likes and dislikes and other stuff that you can relate to yourself, or the opposite wont harm you as long as you feel comfortable of enjoy the presence of each other. and it'd be awesome if both of you could hang out just as how "a bros hanging out with other bros" kind of hangout if you get what I mean. I know it sounds like I'm describing a characteristic of what a girl wants in a guy and stuffs like that, dont get me wrong. The deal here that you both wants the same thing which is "not a relationship" so yeah, this is how it should go, to me.
Never ever treat your fwb as your last resort, remember they're human too! And they have feelings. And you should've understand what the ignorance stands for, something isnt right.
But but but remember the deal is, no string attached so no feelings are involved in it. Although as I've stated before that they have feelings too, what I'm trying to say here is be considerate :)
Just had this on mind before and maybe I shall stop...oh and it has nothing to do with me. Just feel like spilling what is on my mind since I've been putting it on my drafts for so long. So yeah :D
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